I'm Robin and I have been into swinging for over 10 years now. I also
have my own adult website at http://www.robinshouse.com.
KR and I have met hundreds of swinging couples and have been to numerous
swing clubs. Have a question about swinging? That's what I'm here for...
email your question to firstname.lastname@example.org
Dear Robin -
I think its wonderful that intelligent, down to earth, beautiful women
like you explore your sexuality. I noticed on your site that you said
you were kind of shy. I am shy and layed back also. One thing I love to
see is a woman swallow a huge warm cum load and look him in the eye and
tell him she enjoyed it. I never experienced that but I bet it is the
ultimate feeling. I just want to know if you ever swallowed for mutiple
partners at the same time if so was it an awesome experience for you.
I'd love to hear from you and take care.
Dear CC -
Thanks so much for writing. I did get a chance to do that at a bukkake
party I attended. Now mind you, my husband did not tell me it was that
kind of party when he arranged for us to go (in fact, he later confessed
he had no idea what bukkake was....lol). Needless to say, I had all the
cum I could handle. You might not be aware, but cum has quite a variety
of tastes and viscosities....lol (sort of like going to Jiffy Lube, only
no one tells you beforehand if you are tanking up on 10W-30 or 10W-50...lol).
I have only one word to describe the experience....interesting....*grin*.
I really did meet some nice guys there, and a couple of other women as
well (they were especially helpful in keeping my hair out of the way).
Thanks so much for giving me your thoughts on the subject.
I really want to get into swinging but my wife isn't so receptive
to the idea. How can I convince her to do it?
- Greg in Austraila
Isn't that always the way! It's usually the guy who wants to try this
new experience, but his wife is totally oblivious *raising my hand here!!*...lol.
When my hubby first introduced the idea, I thought maybe I should have
him make an appointment to see a shrink...lol. "NO WAY!" is
what I was thinking. Actually, what I was thinking was that there was
no way that people ACTUALLY did that sort of thing...it only happens in
the movies, right? WRONG!! It's a whole big lifestyle out there, with
so many nice and very sexy people. SOOOOO...here's what you do. You could
share your fantasy with your wife...saying it is strictly a fantasy. Concentrate
on the part about her getting pleasure and how much it would turn you
on to see her being pleasured. In other words, keep yourself out of the
action...at first. See what her response is. If it's clear that she is
turned on by the idea, you could have one foot in swingerland!! You could
also try watching a video together. When my hubby brought home a video
where a husband and wife were playing with another woman, he could see
from my reaction that his fantasy had a chance of turning into a reality....*grin*.
No matter what you do, communication is really the key. Here are some
important DON'Ts: Don't trick your wife into a swinging experience by
telling her you are just meeting new friends, but not telling her about
the possible sexual expectations. Don't be disappointed or upset if she
is reluctant...just be patient. DO make sure she has a chance to ask questions
and to talk with the potential couple. Usually, once she has the chance
to see that they are nice people and not the white sex slavers she imagined,
it may be easier for her to take the plunge. Above all, do not, as I have
heard in one case, get her so drunk that she passes out during the initial
meeting. Remember, she would want to make a good impression, not just
a lasting one! I hope this is helpful to you, and ....good luck!!